What a Mother Told Her Daughter who
Was Looking
For a Husband.
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My Daughter, looking for a husband is not
the same
thing as looking for a job. When you are
looking for a
job, you think of money and luxury. But
when you are looking for a husband, you
think of love,
commitment and sacrifice. Money is good
but it is
love and commitment that will bind your
marriage.
Do you know what? When your Father
approached
me, I was 21. I still remember that day.
He didn’t
have a car, he used to drive his mother’s
bicycle. I never used to do make up. We
fell in love. Do you
see this house? I was there when your
Father built it.
I use to come here every day and
supervise the
workers. You see that old red car outside?
We both
contribute money to buy it, it was our first
car. Your
Dad will use it Monday to Friday and I will
use it weekend, except when one person
need it more
than the other. So, do not be afraid of
starting small.
The most important thing is love,
commitment and
dedication. Behind every successful man
is a
woman and behind every unsuccessful
man is also a
woman, choose where you will belong. My
Daughter, let a man see the real you and
love the real you.
When you pretend and look like what
you are not and a man marry you, then
one day when
he begins seeing the real you, that is
where problem
will start. There are some kind of men you
should avoid or be careful with. If you see a man short mini length wear in red
always giving money to people and
helping so many people
but when you visit his home, his sister
looks hungry
and the mother is badly dressed then be
wise. Think
about it. A man that can’t support his
own is not trust
worthy . My Daughter be careful of a man
with too
many secret. Think twice about a man that
keeps too much to himself. How can you
live with a man you
don’t know anything about? You have the
right to
know his fears and his dreams. Know
what you are
getting into. When I married your Dad I
knew his
plans and I played my role to help him
and here we
are. Watch carefully the way a man treats
his sisters and people around him, habits
are very hard to
change, if he is treating them bad then he
may treat
you bad. Pay every big attention to what I
am about
to say now, open your ears very well. If a
man ever
hit you while you are arguing, beat you up
for any
reason, do not bring such a man to
introduce to me. Do not even think of
marrying him. Or else you may
spend every day defending your life
instead of living
your life. There are some men that don’t
give because
they don’t have but there are others that
don’t give because they are stingy. Think twice
about such men.
If you see a man who drinks too much
every time or smoke too much, do not
expect him to change
when you marry him. Marry someone you
are sure
you can live with, not
someone you are hopping will change.
Observe the
kind of friends a man moves with, it has a
lot to do
with who he is. My Daughter, I can’t
choose a husband for you but i have
given you advice that will
guide you. I can’t
wait for you to bring that man home and I
can’t wait
to dance with you on your wedding day.
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